250412 Options to Run a Nostr relay

250412 Options to Run a Nostr relay
Nostream - one of several options

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Running a Nostr relay on a hosted Ubuntu system is a great way to contribute to the decentralized Nostr network. Several implementations and setup methods are available, each with its own advantages. Below, I outline the primary options, focusing on popular relay software compatible with Ubuntu, along with their setup processes, requirements, and considerations. I’ve prioritized open-source solutions and included practical details to help you choose based on your technical expertise and goals.


Option 1: Nostr-rs-relay (Rust-based)

Overview: A lightweight, efficient Nostr relay written in Rust, using SQLite for storage. It’s ideal for those prioritizing performance and simplicity.Pros:

  • High performance and low resource usage.
  • Easy to configure with a single config.toml file.
  • Active community support.
  • Can run without Docker, reducing complexity for some setups.

Cons:

  • Compilation requires Rust, which can take time on low-powered systems.
  • Less beginner-friendly if you’re unfamiliar with Rust or systemd.

Option 2: Nostream (TypeScript-based, Docker)

Full source article here

Overview: A feature-rich Nostr relay written in TypeScript, typically deployed via Docker. It’s suitable for those comfortable with Docker and seeking advanced features like paid relay support.Pros:

  • Docker simplifies deployment and updates.
  • Supports advanced features (e.g., authentication, paid access).
  • Well-documented for Docker-based setups.
  • Active development.

Cons:

  • Docker adds overhead, which may be unnecessary for simple relays.
  • Requires familiarity with Docker and Node.js ecosystems.
  • Higher resource usage compared to nostr-rs-relay.

Option 3: Strfry (C++-based)

Overview: A high-performance relay written in C++, designed for scalability and minimal resource usage. Less common but great for advanced users.Pros:

  • Extremely fast and lightweight.
  • SQLite-based, with low disk usage.
  • Suitable for high-traffic relays.

Cons:

  • Less documentation compared to nostr-rs-relay or Nostream.
  • Requires C++ compilation knowledge.
  • Smaller community.

Option 4: Umbrel Nostr Relay (Docker-based, Home Server Focus)

Overview: Umbrel offers a Nostr relay app for its home server software, which can be adapted for a hosted Ubuntu VPS. Ideal for those already familiar with Umbrel or seeking a user-friendly interface.Pros:

  • Simplified setup via Umbrel’s app store.
  • Web-based management.
  • Integrates with other Umbrel apps (e.g., Bitcoin node).

Cons:

  • Overkill for a VPS if you only need a relay.
  • Requires running Umbrel’s full stack.
  • Less flexible for custom configurations.

Choosing the Right Option

  • For Beginners: Nostream with Docker (Option 2) is forgiving due to its clear documentation and community support. Umbrel (Option 4) is also beginner-friendly but heavier.
  • For Performance: Nostr-rs-relay (Option 1) or Strfry (Option 3) are lightweight and fast, ideal for low-resource VPS or high-traffic relays.
  • For Home Server Enthusiasts: Umbrel (Option 4) if you’re already running or want a full node ecosystem.
  • Resource Considerations:
    • 2GB RAM suffices for nostr-rs-relay or Strfry on small relays.
    • 8GB RAM recommended for Nostream or Umbrel to handle Docker and databases.
    • Storage: Start with 20-50GB SSD; scale up if storing media or running a public relay (1TB could fill in months for busy relays, but most operators prune data).
  • Security Tips:
    • Use a non-root user for running the relay.
    • Regularly update your system and relay software.
    • Backup your database (nostr.db or equivalent) to avoid data loss.
  • Domain and DNS:
    • A domain is essential for wss:// connections. Use providers like Namecheap or Njalla.
    • Set an A record pointing to your VPS IP and ensure PTR records for email deliverability (if used).
  • Testing and Monitoring:
    • Use nostr.watch to verify your relay’s status.
    • Monitor logs via journalctl or Docker logs.
    • Tools like websocat or Nostr clients (Damus, Nos, Primal) help test connectivity.

Enable a firewall (ufw):bash

sudo ufw allow 80,443,22/tcp
sudo ufw enable

Additional Notes

  • Public vs. Private Relay:
    • Public relays store all events (pruning optional), requiring more storage.
    • Private relays (e.g., for you and friends) only store specified pubkey events, saving resources.
  • Cost:
    • VPS costs: ~$5-20/month (e.g., DigitalOcean, Linode, Netcup).
    • Domain: ~$10-20/year.
  • Maintenance:
    • Regularly check for software updates (git pull and rebuild).
    • Monitor disk usage (df -h) and prune old events if needed.
  • Community Resources:
    • Join Nostr communities on Reddit (r/nostr) or Nostr itself for support.
    • Check Relay Wizard or Relay Runner for one-click scripts if you want automation.

If you’re unsure where to start, nostr-rs-relay (Option 1) is a solid choice for its balance of simplicity, performance, and community backing. Want me to dive deeper into any option or troubleshoot a specific setup issue?